Month: June 2019

Iโ€™m Ready To Be Open. Are You?

๐“๐จ ๐ฆ๐ž, ๐ญ๐ก๐ข๐ฌ ๐ข๐ฌ ๐ญ๐ก๐ž ๐ฆ๐จ๐ฌ๐ญ ๐ฏ๐ฎ๐ฅ๐ง๐ž๐ซ๐š๐›๐ฅ๐ž ๐ญ๐ก๐ข๐ง๐  ๐ˆโ€™๐ฏ๐ž ๐ž๐ฏ๐ž๐ซ ๐ฉ๐จ๐ฌ๐ญ๐ž๐โ€ฆ I feel my chest tighten as I finish preparing to hit post on what I wrote about tonight. What I wrote after sitting at the dinner table, reflecting on all that I have been doing, and yet, what I still want for my life. …

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What is the Life you Want to Create?

“๐‘ƒ๐‘’๐‘œ๐‘๐‘™๐‘’ ๐‘ค๐‘–๐‘™๐‘™ ๐‘Ž๐‘™๐‘ค๐‘Ž๐‘ฆ๐‘  โ„Ž๐‘Ž๐‘ฃ๐‘’ ๐‘Ž๐‘› ๐‘œ๐‘๐‘–๐‘›๐‘–๐‘œ๐‘›, ๐‘๐‘ข๐‘ก ๐‘ฆ๐‘œ๐‘ข โ„Ž๐‘Ž๐‘ฃ๐‘’ ๐‘ก๐‘œ ๐‘™๐‘–๐‘ฃ๐‘’ ๐‘™๐‘–๐‘“๐‘’ ๐‘กโ„Ž๐‘’ ๐‘ค๐‘Ž๐‘ฆ ๐‘ฆ๐‘œ๐‘ข ๐‘ค๐‘Ž๐‘›๐‘ก ๐‘ก๐‘œ. ๐ผ๐‘กโ€™๐‘  ๐‘ฃ๐‘’๐‘Ÿ๐‘ฆ ๐‘’๐‘Ž๐‘ ๐‘ฆ ๐‘ก๐‘œ ๐‘ก๐‘’๐‘™๐‘™ ๐‘œ๐‘กโ„Ž๐‘’๐‘Ÿ๐‘  ๐‘คโ„Ž๐‘Ž๐‘ก ๐‘ก๐‘œ ๐‘‘๐‘œ, ๐‘๐‘ข๐‘ก ๐‘‘๐‘–๐‘“๐‘“๐‘–๐‘๐‘ข๐‘™๐‘ก ๐‘ก๐‘œ ๐‘–๐‘š๐‘๐‘™๐‘’๐‘š๐‘’๐‘›๐‘ก ๐‘–๐‘ก ๐‘œ๐‘› ๐‘ฆ๐‘œ๐‘ข๐‘Ÿ๐‘ ๐‘’๐‘™๐‘“โ€ – Preity Zinta You know, I spend an ample amount of time balancing living my life, and reflecting upon how I am …

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The Past is Not the Future. Accept Who We Once Were.

Holding on to a memory of hurting a loved one can carry with it guilt, regret, and a fractured sense of who we are. Carrying quiet messages in our mind about ourselvesโ€ฆ. ๐—ค๐˜‚๐—ถ๐—ฒ๐˜ ๐—บ๐—ฒ๐˜€๐˜€๐—ฎ๐—ด๐—ฒ๐˜€ ๐˜๐—ต๐—ฎ๐˜ ๐˜€๐—ฎ๐˜† ๐˜„๐—ฒ ๐—ฎ๐—ฟ๐—ฒ ๐—ฏ๐—ฎ๐—ฑ ๐—ฎ๐—ป๐—ฑ ๐—ฑ๐—ถ๐˜€๐—ต๐—ผ๐—ป๐—ฒ๐˜€๐˜ ๐—ค๐˜‚๐—ถ๐—ฒ๐˜ ๐—บ๐—ฒ๐˜€๐˜€๐—ฎ๐—ด๐—ฒ๐˜€ ๐˜๐—ต๐—ฎ๐˜ ๐˜€๐—ฎ๐˜† ๐˜„๐—ฒ ๐—ฎ๐—ฟ๐—ฒ ๐˜‚๐—ป๐˜„๐—ผ๐—ฟ๐˜๐—ต๐˜† ๐—ค๐˜‚๐—ถ๐—ฒ๐˜ ๐—บ๐—ฒ๐˜€๐˜€๐—ฎ๐—ด๐—ฒ๐˜€ ๐˜๐—ต๐—ฎ๐˜ ๐˜€๐—ฎ๐˜† ๐˜๐—ต๐—ถ๐˜€ ๐—ถ๐˜€ ๐˜„๐—ต๐—ผ …

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Mistakes Lead to Certain Death.

Early in 2017 I was working on a proposal that would grow my team ~30% and nearly double our coverage area. This was a great opportunity for the company, and my career, to say the least. I was personally enthusiastic about the challenge, and the opportunity to spearhead it. I remember thinking, โ€œ๐‘ค๐‘’โ€™๐‘ฃ๐‘’ ๐‘”๐‘œ๐‘ก ๐‘กโ„Ž๐‘–๐‘ .โ€ …

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Why Must We Fight Fear?

Iโ€™ve written the headline, โ€œ๐‘พ๐’‰๐’š ๐‘ด๐’–๐’”๐’• ๐’˜๐’† ๐‘ญ๐’Š๐’ˆ๐’‰๐’• ๐‘ญ๐’†๐’‚๐’“?โ€ over and over again, followed by a pause, because part of me said to discuss the topic now, another part, wait until later. When we think of โ€œ๐‘“๐‘’๐‘Ž๐‘Ÿโ€, it has many synonyms, like ๐‘Ž๐‘›๐‘ฅ๐‘–๐‘’๐‘ก๐‘ฆ, ๐‘ค๐‘œ๐‘Ÿ๐‘Ÿ๐‘ฆ, ๐‘ข๐‘›๐‘’๐‘Ž๐‘ ๐‘’, ๐‘‘๐‘Ÿ๐‘’๐‘Ž๐‘‘, ๐‘๐‘œ๐‘›๐‘๐‘’๐‘Ÿ๐‘›, ๐‘Ž๐‘›๐‘‘ ๐‘‘๐‘œ๐‘ข๐‘๐‘ก. These are present in our every …

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Control. Fearโ€™s Best Friend.

As Tony Robbins said, โ€œ๐‘ค๐‘’ ๐‘Ž๐‘Ÿ๐‘’ ๐‘œ๐‘๐‘ ๐‘’๐‘ ๐‘ ๐‘’๐‘‘ ๐‘ค๐‘–๐‘กโ„Ž โ„Ž๐‘Ž๐‘ฃ๐‘–๐‘›๐‘” ๐‘๐‘’๐‘Ÿ๐‘ก๐‘Ž๐‘–๐‘›๐‘ก๐‘ฆ, ๐‘Ž ๐‘๐‘’๐‘Ÿ๐‘๐‘’๐‘–๐‘ฃ๐‘’๐‘‘ ๐‘ ๐‘’๐‘›๐‘ ๐‘’ ๐‘œ๐‘“ ๐‘๐‘œ๐‘›๐‘ก๐‘Ÿ๐‘œ๐‘™, ๐‘Ž๐‘›๐‘‘ ๐‘ฆ๐‘’๐‘ก, ๐‘๐‘Ž๐‘Ÿ๐‘Ž๐‘‘๐‘œ๐‘ฅ๐‘–๐‘๐‘Ž๐‘™๐‘™๐‘ฆ, ๐‘ค๐‘’ ๐‘๐‘Ÿ๐‘Ž๐‘ฃ๐‘’ ๐‘ข๐‘›๐‘๐‘’๐‘Ÿ๐‘ก๐‘Ž๐‘–๐‘›๐‘ก๐‘ฆ (๐‘ ๐‘ข๐‘Ÿ๐‘๐‘Ÿ๐‘–๐‘ ๐‘’)โ€ฆ ๐‘Ž๐‘›๐‘‘ ๐‘œ๐‘“ ๐‘๐‘œ๐‘ข๐‘Ÿ๐‘ ๐‘’, ๐‘ค๐‘’ ๐‘œ๐‘›๐‘™๐‘ฆ ๐‘๐‘Ÿ๐‘Ž๐‘ฃ๐‘’ ๐‘กโ„Ž๐‘’ ๐‘ ๐‘ข๐‘Ÿ๐‘๐‘Ÿ๐‘–๐‘ ๐‘’๐‘  ๐‘ค๐‘’ ๐‘™๐‘–๐‘˜๐‘’โ€. When situations arise that we do not like, it often results in us trying to create even more certainty, more control, more โ€œsafetyโ€. …

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