Month: March 2019

Letting Go Scares the Sh** Out of Us!

๐˜ž๐˜ฉ๐˜บ ๐˜ช๐˜ด ๐˜ช๐˜ต ๐˜ด๐˜ฐ ๐˜ฉ๐˜ข๐˜ณ๐˜ฅ ๐˜ต๐˜ฐ ๐˜ญ๐˜ฆ๐˜ต ๐˜จ๐˜ฐ ๐˜ฐ๐˜ง ๐˜ธ๐˜ฉ๐˜ข๐˜ต ๐˜ธ๐˜ฆ ๐˜ฌ๐˜ฏ๐˜ฐ๐˜ธ ๐˜ช๐˜ด๐˜ฏโ€™๐˜ต ๐˜จ๐˜ฐ๐˜ฐ๐˜ฅ ๐˜ง๐˜ฐ๐˜ณ ๐˜ถ๐˜ด? ๐˜ž๐˜ฉ๐˜บ ๐˜ค๐˜ข๐˜ฏโ€™๐˜ต ๐˜ธ๐˜ฆ ๐˜ญ๐˜ฆ๐˜ต ๐˜จ๐˜ฐ ๐˜ฐ๐˜ง ๐˜ด๐˜ฐ๐˜ฎ๐˜ฆ๐˜ต๐˜ฉ๐˜ช๐˜ฏ๐˜จ ๐˜ธ๐˜ฆ ๐˜ฌ๐˜ฏ๐˜ฐ๐˜ธ ๐˜ธ๐˜ฆ ๐˜ฅ๐˜ฐ๐˜ฏโ€™๐˜ต ๐˜ธ๐˜ข๐˜ฏ๐˜ต? In January 2012, I could have asked myself these questions. Had I thought of them! At the time, I had just moved to Atlanta, GA and started …

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The Quicksand Effect!

In the spring of 2010, I had the ๐—ผ๐—ฝ๐—ฝ๐—ผ๐—ฟ๐˜๐˜‚๐—ป๐—ถ๐˜๐˜† to study abroad in New Zealand, for six months. I researched the cost, credits counting towards graduation, and so on. I was so excited, stoked, and energized. This was an opportunity for my small town self to experience what was outside, far outside my current life …

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The Fear of being public

As I sit here writing, I ask myself a questionโ€ฆ โ€œ๐‘Šโ„Ž๐‘Ž๐‘ก ๐‘ค๐‘œ๐‘ข๐‘™๐‘‘ ๐ผ ๐‘™๐‘–๐‘˜๐‘’ ๐‘๐‘’๐‘œ๐‘๐‘™๐‘’ ๐‘ก๐‘œ ๐‘’๐‘ฅ๐‘๐‘’๐‘Ÿ๐‘–๐‘’๐‘›๐‘๐‘’ ๐‘คโ„Ž๐‘’๐‘› ๐ผ ๐‘ โ„Ž๐‘Ž๐‘Ÿ๐‘’ ๐‘š๐‘ฆ ๐‘ค๐‘Ÿ๐‘–๐‘ก๐‘–๐‘›๐‘”๐‘ ?โ€ Before I could actually answer that question, I took a moment and leaned back into the shoulder high chair. I thought, for a moment, about how I historically approached writing posts for Facebook, …

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The Panic Moment

Have you ever had an ๐’๐’‰ ๐’”๐’‰** moment? The kind of moment where the reality of what is about to come, or what you are about to do hits you like aโ€ฆ ๐—ฆ๐—ฝ๐—ฒ๐—ฒ๐—ฑ๐—ถ๐—ป๐—ด ๐—ง๐—ฟ๐—ฎ๐—ถ๐—ป ๐—ฆ๐—บ๐—ฎ๐—ฐ๐—ธ ๐—ถ๐—ป ๐˜๐—ต๐—ฒ ๐—™๐—ฎ๐—ฐ๐—ฒ ๐—ก๐—™๐—Ÿ ๐—Ÿ๐—ถ๐—ป๐—ฒ๐—ฏ๐—ฎ๐—ฐ๐—ธ๐—ฒ๐—ฟ However you describe it, it can happen when we are about to.. ๐—ฆ๐˜๐—ฎ๐—ฟ๐˜ ๐—ฎ ๐—ป๐—ฒ๐˜„ …

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Letโ€™s Be Real. We Are Afraid of Loss.

As I was walking back to my Airbnb from the gym, listening to the bio of Oprah Winfrey, a thought crossed my mind, โ€œ๐˜ ๐˜ฉ๐˜ข๐˜ท๐˜ฆ๐˜ฏโ€™๐˜ต ๐˜ด๐˜ฑ๐˜ฐ๐˜ฌ๐˜ฆ๐˜ฏ ๐˜ธ๐˜ช๐˜ต๐˜ฉ ๐˜ฎ๐˜บ ๐˜จ๐˜ณ๐˜ข๐˜ฏ๐˜ฅ๐˜ฎ๐˜ฐ๐˜ต๐˜ฉ๐˜ฆ๐˜ณ ๐˜ด๐˜ช๐˜ฏ๐˜ค๐˜ฆ ๐˜Š๐˜ฉ๐˜ณ๐˜ช๐˜ด๐˜ต๐˜ฎ๐˜ข๐˜ด.โ€ My grandmother, a woman I adore, a woman who, has without a doubt shown what unconditional love looks like throughout my entire life, had …

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The Fear of Sharing the Truth

Yesterday I shared with the world of Facebook, one of my most vulnerable stories, an experience from my life that I was ashamed of, and hid for years. When asked about the scar on my head, with most, โ€œ๐ผ โ„Ž๐‘Ž๐‘‘ ๐‘๐‘’๐‘’๐‘› ๐‘–๐‘› ๐‘Ž ๐‘๐‘Ž๐‘Ÿ ๐‘Ž๐‘๐‘๐‘–๐‘‘๐‘’๐‘›๐‘กโ€ With others, โ€œ๐ผ ๐‘ค๐‘Ž๐‘  ๐‘š๐‘ข๐‘”๐‘”๐‘’๐‘‘โ€ And yet, Iโ€™ve always known …

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